The other day I met a young migrant woman, who has common questions as the others. She is not very happy with her current situation. She is not doing what she studied for and she missed the family, things she is used to.
As a migrant, I know it is very hard. You have pretty much start from the scratch. I believe you have to be 100% sure about what do you want.
It is nothing wrong to stay in the new country for a while. (e.g. a year or two) You need time to figure it out. Like buying a garment, you have to try it for fitting before you buy it. It is just sad to see the migrant who have been here for a long time but still not happy with the “new life”.
1. If you decide to settle in a foreign country, please be prepared about the cultures’ differences. A new language, brand new life style, there might be nothing in common with what you are used to. However, jump into it. Learn the language, make new friends and adopt the new life style bit by bit. You will be fine. The beginning is always hard, but once you kicked off the new life, everything actually can fly.
2. If you decide that you don’t want to settle to another country. You are not a natural linguist, and you don’t want to be one. It is nothing wrong to return to the country you were born, grown up and familiar with. A happy life is not qualified by where the individual lives but whether the individual feels happy or not. I know it is hard, but, don’t worry about the other’s judgement. You don’t have to return home with wealth but you’ve got the richest and valuable thing – experience.
Once the decision is made, you will feel relieved. The life from that point will only be forwards and onwards, because you know what you want.